You create your life!
I have not been here for a while due to work, exaustion, problems, and not having a desire to write.
I have been struggling with my daughter who is 15 and who goes to school in 9th grade. This is the last year she goes to elementary school. She has to have grades to go to high school, but I´m not getting through to her. She has no real desire to study and it is a pity that she does not understand that her actions has an impact on her future. I have been trying to get her to understand that what she does today has a consequence in the future.
I have read about the Law of attraction (see for this the books by Jerry and Esther Hicks about Abraham, good read!!!) and simply explained it´s about what you think about and what feeling you give this thought is what shows up in your reality.
For example if you think you are poor and have that feeling inside, that is what is going to show up in your life.
The same thing if you think of good things and you really feel it and you act as if it already happened than that whats will show up in your life.
The tricky part is that the Law of attraction does not make a difference if somethings is good or bad, from our perspective, it will respond to that what you think and how you feel about the thought.
That is what I try to explain to my daughter, whatever feeling she has about school, it´s no good, it´s not intresting, it´s boring and she has that feeling, I mean really feel that inside of her, THAT´S WHAT WILL BE SHOWING UP IN YOUR REALITY!
I will be having a meeting at school on monday, let´s see what will be said there.
I understand my daughter about school. Here in Sweden the schoolsystem was very good, the Swedes had very good results in international comparisons, but not anymore.
The students lack of knowledge in several subject-matter and it´s a shame that Sweden with all its wealth can not teach and make school to students fun and intresting, eager to learn new things, to think outside the box. No! It seems that they are not intrested to make school something that can give out children knowledge that will serve them in the future. I have always had problems with math, since I was a child. Languages was my hobby, I have had no problems to learn another language. I have learned italian and greek and I loved it! But don´t ask me to explain nor use the Pythagoras kit! I don´t even know what it is for!
School should be informative, challenging, children should learn things they what to explore, not what some goverment say we NEED to learn!
I have a son who is autistic. He goes to school too but he has the freedom to learn what he likes, he will not have grades, he will go from elementary school to high school without having grades, he does not need that. He has several teachers in his class and the class is only about 8 or 9 students. Every child should have that! Not only children with learning disabilities.
I hope that in the fall the swedes understand and vote for a more humanitarian government that the one that we have right now.
I was reading an article earlier today that what we have been giving, life, is a gift. The more I think about it, the more I have the feeling that it is so! A gift!
The gift of feeling, taste, touch, smell, to be able to love!
Those are wonderful gifts, that every human being should be thankful for. I will be saying "Thank you" more often because I´m thankful for all that is showing up in my life and what will come in the future. I have made it happen! I have made the arrangements that what shows up I have been the creator of it! If you understand this, that everything what shows up is because you created it, than you will start taking responsibility for what shows up and stop blaming others for causing things.
I think this goes hand in hand with forgiveness aswell.
Many people say, Don´t forget, don´t forgive!
I think you should forgive. When you forgive than the healing can start, you forgive the person who caused you pain or suffering, and most inportant is to forgive yourself for not being more generous or more loving, for not to stand up for me more often... That is the most difficult part, to forgive yourself. I´m not saying you should forget, because you never will, and that is not the point here, it sums up in taking care and responsibility for your actions and feelings and the healing and forgiveness can start.
I have been able to achive forgiveness in some situations in my life, for example my father. He has and still is a very strong and authoritarian person who did not allow me to become a nurse.
I was 16 when I had plans to study to be a nurse but that was not good enough for him. He had other plans for us, we had to attend university, there was no other option! Every other option was out of the question!
So I gave in, even though I was very sad, I cried, I begged to become a nurse but the was no possibility for me. Even though I could have been a rebel, I did nothing! I said nothing! I just froze, just like I did that time I wrote about my ex collegue.
I went to high school and then to university.
Today I have a mastersdegree in german literature and language but it is not a profession.
I have had several jobs but nothing that relates to what I studied for. Only once when I worked as a teacher! Another dreamjob I had as a child!
Today I work for the goverment and I do not like it, I do not see myself 10 years from now doing this.
The thing is that it took me a long time to forgive my father, a long time I blamed him for all that was wrong in my life, until a couple of years ago when I realized that he thought that he was doing the right thing. He thought that he knew best what I needed when in reality I knew all along what I wanted to be, a nurse.
I forgave him but hard was to forgive myself for not standing up for me, for letting someone govern me, and for not listening to my inner voice that was right all along!!! It took some time but everyday I´m getting closer.
You know that I´m planing to study to be a nurse, but there is one problem: I have to study math!!!
But this time I will do it gladly and my thoughts will be that I can do it and with a little help from the Law of attraction everything will go my way. I am the creator of my own life!
Namaste!
I have been struggling with my daughter who is 15 and who goes to school in 9th grade. This is the last year she goes to elementary school. She has to have grades to go to high school, but I´m not getting through to her. She has no real desire to study and it is a pity that she does not understand that her actions has an impact on her future. I have been trying to get her to understand that what she does today has a consequence in the future.
I have read about the Law of attraction (see for this the books by Jerry and Esther Hicks about Abraham, good read!!!) and simply explained it´s about what you think about and what feeling you give this thought is what shows up in your reality.
For example if you think you are poor and have that feeling inside, that is what is going to show up in your life.
The same thing if you think of good things and you really feel it and you act as if it already happened than that whats will show up in your life.
The tricky part is that the Law of attraction does not make a difference if somethings is good or bad, from our perspective, it will respond to that what you think and how you feel about the thought.
That is what I try to explain to my daughter, whatever feeling she has about school, it´s no good, it´s not intresting, it´s boring and she has that feeling, I mean really feel that inside of her, THAT´S WHAT WILL BE SHOWING UP IN YOUR REALITY!
I will be having a meeting at school on monday, let´s see what will be said there.
I understand my daughter about school. Here in Sweden the schoolsystem was very good, the Swedes had very good results in international comparisons, but not anymore.
The students lack of knowledge in several subject-matter and it´s a shame that Sweden with all its wealth can not teach and make school to students fun and intresting, eager to learn new things, to think outside the box. No! It seems that they are not intrested to make school something that can give out children knowledge that will serve them in the future. I have always had problems with math, since I was a child. Languages was my hobby, I have had no problems to learn another language. I have learned italian and greek and I loved it! But don´t ask me to explain nor use the Pythagoras kit! I don´t even know what it is for!
School should be informative, challenging, children should learn things they what to explore, not what some goverment say we NEED to learn!
I have a son who is autistic. He goes to school too but he has the freedom to learn what he likes, he will not have grades, he will go from elementary school to high school without having grades, he does not need that. He has several teachers in his class and the class is only about 8 or 9 students. Every child should have that! Not only children with learning disabilities.
I hope that in the fall the swedes understand and vote for a more humanitarian government that the one that we have right now.
I was reading an article earlier today that what we have been giving, life, is a gift. The more I think about it, the more I have the feeling that it is so! A gift!
The gift of feeling, taste, touch, smell, to be able to love!
Those are wonderful gifts, that every human being should be thankful for. I will be saying "Thank you" more often because I´m thankful for all that is showing up in my life and what will come in the future. I have made it happen! I have made the arrangements that what shows up I have been the creator of it! If you understand this, that everything what shows up is because you created it, than you will start taking responsibility for what shows up and stop blaming others for causing things.
I think this goes hand in hand with forgiveness aswell.
Many people say, Don´t forget, don´t forgive!
I think you should forgive. When you forgive than the healing can start, you forgive the person who caused you pain or suffering, and most inportant is to forgive yourself for not being more generous or more loving, for not to stand up for me more often... That is the most difficult part, to forgive yourself. I´m not saying you should forget, because you never will, and that is not the point here, it sums up in taking care and responsibility for your actions and feelings and the healing and forgiveness can start.
I have been able to achive forgiveness in some situations in my life, for example my father. He has and still is a very strong and authoritarian person who did not allow me to become a nurse.
I was 16 when I had plans to study to be a nurse but that was not good enough for him. He had other plans for us, we had to attend university, there was no other option! Every other option was out of the question!
So I gave in, even though I was very sad, I cried, I begged to become a nurse but the was no possibility for me. Even though I could have been a rebel, I did nothing! I said nothing! I just froze, just like I did that time I wrote about my ex collegue.
I went to high school and then to university.
Today I have a mastersdegree in german literature and language but it is not a profession.
I have had several jobs but nothing that relates to what I studied for. Only once when I worked as a teacher! Another dreamjob I had as a child!
Today I work for the goverment and I do not like it, I do not see myself 10 years from now doing this.
The thing is that it took me a long time to forgive my father, a long time I blamed him for all that was wrong in my life, until a couple of years ago when I realized that he thought that he was doing the right thing. He thought that he knew best what I needed when in reality I knew all along what I wanted to be, a nurse.
I forgave him but hard was to forgive myself for not standing up for me, for letting someone govern me, and for not listening to my inner voice that was right all along!!! It took some time but everyday I´m getting closer.
You know that I´m planing to study to be a nurse, but there is one problem: I have to study math!!!
But this time I will do it gladly and my thoughts will be that I can do it and with a little help from the Law of attraction everything will go my way. I am the creator of my own life!
Namaste!
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