In the long run, it´s for the better!
A week ago today S and I came to a decision to end our relationship. It is sad but I had to make a stand for myself. I could not go on to be a secret, something that had to be hidden away because of fear, fear that his children would leave him or have no further conctact with him. His fear is so great that he decided against love Unfortunately he had a similar situation years ago with his older children. His former wife (mother of his younger children) thought that now that they had children, the older ones should not be included in the new family and here is when it gets bizarre. His children did not want to have contact with him since he had a new family and that they were not longer welcome in their lives. I understand that this was very difficult for him, he suffered a lot because the older children decided to no longer have contact with his father. He nowadays has kind of good contact with his daughter but his oldest son has not yet forgiven him, something I can und...