My spiritual journey

I sometimes wonder: has everything we do have to do with sex?  I got to know a guy through a game, we started talking and then we talked about a lot of things and today I mentioned that I have to go to work tomorrow but I´m not that tired, so he suggested masturbation. I´m not prude and I do not have any problem talking about sex but I answered that I will safe that option for another time. He went on when that time will be, I told him that the word in german for mastubation is "Selbstbefriedigung" which means "selfsatisfaction", but in german the word has the word "selbst" in it and that means by myself. I told him that that was something that he did not need to know because masturbation is about being alone and when that happens I would be by myself. He apologized but I was kind of sad because I have been around a while and it always (99%) is the man that starts talking or asking about sex. I have not met him IRL and I will not either since he lives ...

I sometimes wonder when someone in the family is commiting a fault who´s responsibility it is to act or do not do anything. My daughter is 15 going on 16 and she has a boyfriend who she has not met IRL. They realtionship is through the internet and they talk for hours. I don´t find that so strange, we are living in the new millenia and things are not quiet as they were when I was that same age. The point is that he is afraid of meeting with her. He thinks that she will not like him at all when they finally meet. That is stupid but she is okay with it. Meanwhile is her mother (me) thinking how this relationship is going to survive if things don´t change. Possibly is he a fine young kid, only a year younger than he but he is definitely not feeling well at all. He has anxiety and he often tells her that he is going to take his life, that he hurts himself and that he doesn´t want to live anymore. The kid hates himself and that is a real pity but is it my daughters task to take care of...